When Prince Harry and Meghan Markle first started dating, their relationship faced constant scrutiny from the paparazzi. In an effort to protect their privacy, the couple had to take various precautions, including being careful about what Meghan wore in public. However, one particular incident stands out – when Prince Harry gave Meghan a sentimental gift, she was told she couldn't wear it. According to the biography "Finding Freedom," Prince Harry had a $300 necklace made for Meghan that featured an "M" and "H" charm, symbolizing their blossoming romance. Although the necklace didn't compare in value to the royal family's fine jewelry, it held great sentimental value to Meghan. She wanted to proudly wear the necklace, but she was advised against it.

Prince Harry's aide contacted Meghan and informed her that wearing the necklace would only encourage the pursuing photographers and lead to more tabloid headlines. This restriction left Meghan feeling frustrated and emotional. It was overwhelming for her to have someone from her boyfriend's office dictate what jewelry she could wear or how she should interact with the paparazzi.

Despite the difficulties they faced in their early days, Prince Harry and Meghan decided to step down from their royal roles in 2020. Along with their son, Prince Archie, they moved to the United States, where they have since welcomed their daughter, Princess Lilibet. Living in California has given them a sense of freedom and privacy that they longed for while being part of the royal family.

Although their relationship with the British royal family remains strained, it is possible that reconciliation could happen in the future. Prince William and Kate Middleton, for example, have three children who may desire a closer relationship with their cousins as they grow older. It is also likely that at some point, Harry and Meghan will bring their children to the UK to reconnect with their royal relatives, even if these visits are infrequent. The incident surrounding Meghan's forbidden necklace serves as a reminder of the challenges faced by Prince Harry and Meghan as a couple in the public eye. Despite the restrictions placed upon them, their decision to prioritize their own well-being and establish their own path illuminates their strength and resilience.